Momwe Mungachitire Ndi Banja Lopanda Ntchito ndikupeza Chimwemwe Chanu:

Kukhala ndi banja logwira ntchito kumatha kukhala kolemetsa kwambiri ndipo mosakayikira kungakusiyeni mukumva mwamalingaliro, mwamalingaliro komanso mwakuthupi.
Pokhala ndi mikangano yomwe ikukula mnyumba yomwe ingayambitse kuchitiridwa nkhanza, ndikofunikira kuti muphunzire kupewa kusamvana, kukhazikitsa malire ndikuthana ndi banja lanu. Malo abwino kuyamba ndikuwonetsetsa zaumoyo wanu wamaganizidwe anu ndi malingaliro anu ndikuyimira ufulu wanu.

“Maubwenzi oopsa samangotisangalatsa; akuwononga malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu m'njira zomwe zimawonongera ubale wathu wathanzi komanso zimatilepheretsa kuzindikira kuti zinthu zingakhale bwino. ”- Michael Josephson
Banja labwino lili ndi gulu la anthu omwe timawadalira, anthu omwe amatikonda, kutisamalira komanso kutisamalira, anthu omwe amapereka chitsogozo ndi thandizo lathu pamene tikudutsa m'moyo, anthu omwe timawadalira.

Banja ndiye chofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wa mwana. Nthawi zambiri timaganiza za banja ngati abale amwazi koma zomvetsa chisoni si onse achibale omwe amatifunira zabwino. Ena mwa anthu omwe ali ndi poizoni kwambiri omwe timawadziwa angagawane DNA yemweyo.
Ubwino wabanja wabwinobwino kaŵirikaŵiri umadzetsa mwana kukhulupirira kuti malingaliro, zofuna zawo, ndi zokhumba zawo ndizofunika komanso zopanda tanthauzo. Akamakula nthawi zambiri amakhala osadzidalira. Kukhumudwa ndi nkhawa zili ponseponse. Ana akuluakulu ochokera ku banja lokhala ndi chiyembekezo amafunika kuthandizidwa kuti amvetsetse kuti ndi osakwanira ndikuwathandiza kuti azitha kudzidalira komanso kukhala ndi ubale wolimba komanso wathanzi.

M'mabanja oopsa kunyalanyaza komanso kuzunzidwa nthawi zambiri kumachitika tsiku lililonse. Banja ili litha kuwoneka bwino kuchokera kunja koma ndi nkhani ina kwa iwo omwe akukhala mkati mwa banja losavomerezeka ili. Chilichonse ndichokhudza chifanizo.

Kholo lachiwerewere limayang'ana pagulu ndikuwoneka wowolowa manja, wochezeka komanso wokongola pomwe pakhomo latsekedwa amakhala akuzunza ndikuwongolera.

Momwe Mungachitire Ndi Banja Lopanda Ntchito ndikupeza Chimwemwe Chanu
Momwe Mungachitire Ndi Banja Lopanda Ntchito ndikupeza Chimwemwe Chanu

Nyumba yomwe nkhanza zimachitika, kaya ndi zamaganizidwe kapena thupi, sizidzakhalanso nyumba. Kulankhula za zovuta zawo ndizoletsedwa. (Tingoyerekeza kuti chilichonse ndichabwino.) Am'banja omwe zinthu zimayenda bwino pamasewera, kunyalanyaza, nsanje, kudzudzula, komanso kusilira sizidzapangitsa mwana kumva bwino.

Ana ochokera m'mabanja amisala nthawi zambiri amakula kuti akhale pafupi ndi abale ndi alongo awo akadzakula. Nthawi zambiri amakangana wina ndi mnzake muubwana wawo. Pokhapokha ngati mwana ali ndi 'mwana wagolide' m'banjamo, aziwoneka ndi kusamveka, kulakwa komanso kunyozeka. Palibe chomwe angachite chomwe chikhala chokwanira ndipo aphunzira posachedwa kuti kufunikira kwake kumatengera zomwe akwanitsa, momwe angapangire kuti banjali lizioneka bwino osati momwe lilili.

Zizindikiro kuti mukuthana ndi omwe ali ndi mabanja owopsa
Amakhala akuchitira zachipongwe kapena kuzunza anzawo.
Amakupangitsani kumva kuti simungathe kuchita kapena kunena chilichonse chabwino.
Amakuwitsani. (Nthawi zina zotchedwa 'nkhondo ya m'maganizo' kuwunikira kwa magetsi ndizowoneka bwino pamasewera am'maganizo omwe amachitika kwakanthawi kamapangitsa munthu kudziwitsidwa kuti adzifunse mafunso ake komanso / kapena asathe kudalira zigamulo zawo.)
Kupanda kumvera chisoni.
Amasewera chifukwa cha zochitika zomwe amapanga.
Mumakhala wopanda nkhawa mukakhala pafupi.
Amakuikani pansi kuposa momwe angakukwezerani.
Amagwiritsa ntchito zambiri zakutsutsana nanu. (Zomwe mudawapatsa powadalira.)
Amayesa kukulamulirani.
Iwo akuweruza. (Chidzudzulo cholungamitsidwa ndichabwino koma kutsutsa kawirikawiri kumawononga kudzidalira kwamunthu aliyense.)
Mukuwona ngati mukuyenda pamavalo kuti musawakhumudwitse.
Amakhala ndi nkhani za mkwiyo. (Zida zophulika.)
Amawonetsa zinthu zankhanza kwambiri. (Kuyambitsa chinsinsi pakulankhula kwa ena komwe kumaganiziridwa kuti pang'ono kumapangitsa kuti pakhale kusagwirizana komanso kusatsimikizika.)
Pali mikangano yosatha komanso yosafunikira. (Kusagwirizana ndizabwinobwino. Nthawi zambiri kumangoyambitsa mikangano sikoyambitsa.)
Amayesetsa kukusiyanitsani ndi anzanu kapena abale anu. (Mukakhala nokha, mumakhala osavuta kuulamulira popanda wina kutembenukira koma wakuzunza.)
Munthuyu amagwiritsa ntchito maukadaulo kuti apindule. (Amachita zinthu mosadzilamulira kapena kuchitira ena zachipongwe komanso kuchitira ena zachipongwe.)
Amafalitsa miseche. (Amatembenuza anthu kutsutsana ndikupanga nsanje komanso kukwiya.) Amakusowetsani chisangalalo ndipo mumadzimva nokha. (Mutha kukayika kuti pali cholakwika ndi inu ndikuti zonse zomwe zikuyenda ndi vuto lanu.)
Kodi mumatani ndi banja lanjala?
Choyipitsitsa chomwe mungachite ndichoti musachite chilichonse. Popanda kuchita chilichonse mukuwapatsa chithunzi choti mayendedwe awo ndiabwino. Izi zimapangitsa kuti mukhale ndi thanzi komanso thanzi. Lekani kusiya gawo lanu kuti musunge mtendere.